9 keys to a successful marriage

9 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL  MARRIAGE

Getting married is everybody’s fantasy but what they only get know after marriage is that it is not easy. Keeping a happy, healthy,successful marriage requires some efforts from both sides.

So if you already are in a marriage or will soon be in, this list of  9 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE is surely going to help you a lot. The 9 keys are:

  1. IT’S NOT CHESS
  2. FINGER ON YOUR LIPS
  3. “AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER”
  4. COMMITMENT
  5. COMMUNICATION
  6. COMPLIMENTS
  7. HONESTY
  8. SACRIFICES
  9. KEEP THE ROMANCE ALIVE

1. IT’S NOT CHESS

9 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL  MARRIAGE

Almost all the marriages are always controlled by one person. Either it is the husband or the wife. You can’t dominate each other and have a comfortable, easy-going marriage.

To make a relationship stable, you need to be neutral. Take each other’s opinions on matters and decide mutually.

2. FINGER ON YOUR LIPS

9 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL  MARRIAGE

Many couples always try to win arguments through the‘Divorce’ word. While fighting, if you do not want to have a divorce then don’t mention it. Trying to use the word to threaten other person is the worst thing you can do.

Those who often talk about divorce or separation in arguments, end up having it.  So have mature conversation or maybe argument sometimes that will solve the issue.

3. “AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER”

Stop living in fantasies. We are always expecting things to be the ways they are in movies. But then they turn out to be different and we are left sad. Everything requires efforts.

Marriage is no different. Marriages Are beautiful if you try to make it work, but you can’t expect it to be always problem free and romantic.

4. COMMITMENT

9 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL  MARRIAGE

When you get married to someone, you make a commitment to each other. You make vows to always be together and be there for each other in every kind of situation

. You have to take your promises seriously and fulfill them. Do everything it takes to make your marriage work.

5. COMMUNICATION

9 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL  MARRIAGE

Communication is important in every kind of relationship and marriage is no exception to it. You may be living together under one roof,eating together, sleeping together but that does not mean you are communicating.

Have conversations daily about everything to share happiness or worries. It is hard with children but you have to take out some time of the day to converse.

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Communication is not just verbal; some people talk to each other through actions. Notice small things your partner does for you like dropping kids at school or ironing clothes.

It is called the language of love.You know what your partner wants or needs without him or her having to say it.

6. COMPLIMENTS

9 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL  MARRIAGE

Never underestimate the power of a compliment. A simple ‘you look nice today’ has an ability to cure the crappy day that you had or were going to have.

Acknowledge small things about you partner and point out the positive things instead of negative.

7. HONESTY

Honesty is the most important thing in a relationship.Keeping secrets, lying will sooner or later ruin your relationship completely.

Being honest in not an easy job but it is so essential that it can’t be ignored under any circumstances. Through honesty, you can solve any problem that is a threat to your life or marriage.

8. SACRIFICES

Some people think of sacrifice as a weakness that I will not make any sacrifice for someone else etc. But you need to know that when sacrifice is done from both sides,

it is not a weakness because every marriage needs some kinds of sacrifices. It is very ugly sometimes but marriage is all about give and take. There should be no winning or losing in a marriage.

9. KEEP THE ROMANCE ALIVE

9 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL  MARRIAGE

After a few years of marriage, people start living as single people again. But you do not the role romance plays in strengthening your relationship.

Try giving her a flower or setting up a date night for him and watch your marriage bloom.

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